A Little Bit About Me
Salaam Alaikum,
"Everyone you meet will ask you do you have a car, own a house,have a career etc as if life is some sort of grocery list, but no one will care to ask if you're happy"- Heath Ledger.
•Single , never married before individual seeking a potential husband & best friend.
■ Alittle about me;
•Empathetic
•Patient
•Romantic at heart
•Hygienic
•Hardworking
•Good at multitasking
•Love flowers
•Enjoys travelling
•Laid-back
•Adventurous(chased by a bull & almost bitten by snakes plenty of times)
•Down to earth
•Opinionated
•Educated
•An ambivert
•Ambitious
•Energetic
•Loves dressing up & taking care of myself
•Animal lover
•Sports lover
•Good sense of humour
•Family orientated & a modern practicing muslim.
•🍲🦐Fairly good cooking skills from eastern to western cuisine & can manage a household have experience living on my own.
• 🕋👩Well balanced mix of eastern & western culture,prays salaah regularly,fast in Ramadaan,eats halaal only & hoping to improve my Deen.
•I'm an organised individual but I'm far from perfect...afterall who is.
•I work out to keep toned & in shape, my naturally high metabolic rate means no getting shredded 5 or 7 days a week (I'm a UK size 6-8 /U.S size 4-6 with a size 4 shoe). PS: I don't use a headscarf on a full time basis.
■🌍Nationality & background:
I'm a South African citizen (Paternal fam arrived in S.A in late 1800's, maternal in 1940's) born, raised & educated in S.A.With that said kindly note that I'm not British !
Speaks English, IsiZulu & Afrikaans & understand & speak some urdu, hindi & arabic(read, write & speak) .
I have mixed arab, persian & indian ancestry & I'm medium skin toned.
Currently living & working in Bournemouth South ,UK. Current work- as a DN for the NHS.
My current visas for The U.S & U.K allows easy travel to & from my home country.
■Hobbies
• Anything outdoors that concerns sports like tennis, netball etc,jogging + running(I'm a ex-trail runner), travelling ✈,road trips, being creative around the house or kitchen, watching sports/series/documentaries or movies,dinning out or indoors,listening to some good music(90's,2000's),reading , meditating, shopping & doing the usual chores in the house etc etc
•Go to concerts,visit art museum's(art fan & I've done Le Lourve & Von Gough museums), go to comedy shows & catch up with family.
☆☆Perfect chill out night would be sitting around a bonfire(or fireplace in winter)at the beach on a cool summer's night.
NB:When I'm unavailable my profile will be hidden or switched off.
Returned to the site after some time, not the ideal way of finding your future partner but I'm hoping to try.🤞
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What I Am Looking For
A husband,
👨Should be;
•Honest
•Ambitious
•Stable(in career & financially)
•Non-judgemental
•Emotionally matured
•Educated
•Neat & be hygienic
•Independent individual & drama free man who seeks a future wife & wants to build a life together.
•Fluent in English or a good command of the language.
•Be a modern muslim man, who I can be compatible with. I don't expect someone perfect..we all have flaws.
🛋✈️🎾🚿 BONUS .. if you into travelling + adventurous,alittle laid-back & you're not a Leo(sorry we wont click).
•Openness & transparency from the beginning plz ..not looking for a project to work on but a level headed man. **Communication,attraction & a connection between us two is vital to build something solid(remember Rome wasn't built in a day).
Ps:Your level of education or salary doesn't define who you are or how you should be treated ..your character does!!
🕋👨Be a practicing muslim & single,let's see even if you from another country or locally.
Ages: 39(not younger) & over but not old enough to be my dad. Prefer someone who has a mixed background or is a South African ( in England) but NOT essential.
* If you have obsessive controlling parents & siblings/family who constantly dictate to you what to do in your life that's a 🚩 - don't contact me.
* If you believe in the caste system or in self-made peer's … I come from a modern family - don't contact me.
*If you have a current mental illness (Insha Allah, I wish you all the best with your treatment nothing against it) - would be best if you don't contact me.
* If you are egotistical, a narcissist or manipulator- don't contact me.
* If you have been engaged or married multiple times & is still married,currently separated or looking for a haraam relationship -don't contact me.
* If you have a profile with less than 3 words in what you looking for or its blank + no pro pic + have ' unsure’ . '-🚩 don't contact me.
* Will reply to profiles with pictures first containing info in what you seeking, or someone willing to share their pics.Messages mandatory b4 pic swap request. Blank profiles will be ignored.
*If you looking to treat me like a maid- don't contact me
* No smoking(Ciggies,weed etc), hooka smokers(shisha), vapers,alcohol drinkers or druggies.
* If we chatted before & it did not progress further-don't contact me.
*For 'some' of the men frm S.A .. Gouddelwers bly weg!
•Time is precious so don't bother asking irrelevant questions (& discuss inappropriate topics) if I don't meet your criteria plz.
•No hateful messages plz if I don't entertain your inappropriate chats,you gotta take your immaturity with a pinch of salt & move on.
•Plz don't fill me up on irrelevant convos you had with other woman,I'm not Dr Phil or your therapist.
•If you not happy chatting here first & getting to know each other, all the best.
•No full conversations at first = no exchange of phone numbers...non-negotiable
•Don't send me your whatsapp number, followed by the message "I don't come online all the time"
•Don't be a panzy & contact me if you are not willing to share your pics.
"The spouse that you choose will make you or break you, so choose wisely"- Mufti Menk.
That's a wrap!
Goodluck & Wasalam .
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